I know a lot of couples want to improve their sex life. This can be complicated with the over-sexed world. Where can you go without being bombarded by visuals you'd prefer to leave unseen? I've spent many years looking for such resources, because I love sex, and I want to be able to learn about it from resources that are healthy for myself and my husband.
Any resources I recommend are ones that have been helpful to me in some way. That doesn't mean that everything applies to me or even that I like everything a person says. Check them out for yourself, take what you can from them, put aside what you can't.
If you want to read some great blog posts about sex, I highly recommend Kevin A. Thompson. I've read both of his books and probably all his blog posts. He really challenges me, and I love the way he talks about sex. I do his 28 day marriage challenge every February (my husband has no idea :)), which is a lot of fun. I also like To Love, Honor, and Vacuum. This is a woman's perspective on sex as a service, educating yourself, and simple, frank discussions on all the questions you've been afraid to ask.
If you like podcasts, I've really enjoyed One Extraordinary Marriage. This couple did a 60 day sex challenge, started a blog, and later a podcast to talk about the importance of intimacy in marriage. Their podcast is a great way to start conversation and think about how you can improve. You can also check out Sex Chat for Christian Wives. This is an area I want to explore more, so I'd love to know of any you like!
If you're interested in books about sex, here are some of my favourites:
Intended for Pleasure by Ed and Gaye Wheat
Sheet Music by Kevin Leman
For Women Only by Shaunti Feldhahn
Friends, Partners, & Lovers by Kevin A Thompson
The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex by Sheila Wray Gregoire
Bonk by Mary Roach (this one is more about the science and is full of fun and facts. This is the only book on my list that isn't written by a Christian.)
I love lingerie, and my husband does, too. Here are some model-free websites where you can find beautiful lingerie in many styles, colors, sizes, and price-points. Because they're model free, you can even let your husband pick something. Several of these sites also include other sexy-time things:
https://secretthursday.com/
https://www.engedilingerie.com/
https://www.gingerandpeachlingerie.com/
https://www.honoringintimates.com/
https://shopmentionables.com/
https://christianlovetoys.com/
https://marrieddance.com/
Interested in exploring sex positions without pictures of real people?:
https://www.christianfriendlysexpositions.com/
Married Christian Sex will randomly generate various sexual encounters that you can try out. There are other resources as well, so feel free to explore! Christian Nymphos is also a resource I've used regularly.
That's all for now! I'm regularly exploring new books, blogs, podcasts, etc. I'll add to this list as I find new things. Explore! Grab your spouse! Have a good time :).
